We get to the heart of relationships

Tag: love

Hey, What’s Happened to You?!

Is your partner saying that it’s hard to talk to you because you – Turn into your mom or dad? Become a different person when you cross the bridge going to your parent’s home? Take on the tone of a “critical parent”? Go into attack mode when you feel threatened? Cower when you feel threatened?… Read More ›

Forgive the ___________? Are you insane?

The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. Mahatma Gandhi Yes! To be healthy you’ve got to do it – you need to let go of resentment, anger and bitterness. You need to find a way to stop feeling angry and resentful because the feelings carry a poison with them; it’s… Read More ›

What’s Most Important in a Relationship

“Unless you love someone nothing else makes sense.” Anonymous So, if you want to have a great relationship, what’s most important? What comes to mind? A large number of my patients might say, “good communication”. But, what do you think is foundational to having a healthy relationship with your partner? My vote goes to freely loving… Read More ›

Let’s Work Together to Build Great Relationships

When it comes to people no one can have all the answers. I think that it makes sense to work together toward understanding the truth about why some couples seem to be truly happy together while others split up or live together miserably. Some people truly seem to love each other after 40 – 50… Read More ›